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Monday, January 28, 2008

Is Masturbation Normal?

It's Normal, Healthy and Okay to Masturbate!

eve and adam Masturbation can be defined as self-stimulation to cause sexual sensations. The use of the word masturbation usually suggests that the person is manipulating his or her genitals to the point of intense pleasure or orgasm. (Orgasm refers to a period of intense excitement in which genital muscles enter in to a series of highly pleasurable contractions or movements.)

While masturbation can involve another person, most of us think of it as a very private act. According to some health care providers masturbation allows a healthy way to express and explore your sexuality and to release sexual tension without all the associated risks of sexual intercourse. Health professionals generally agree that this private touching is a natural, normal mode of self-exploration and sexual expression. Unfortunately, after the excitement of the moment has passed, many people find themselves filled with guilty and or shame.


Have u been caught Red-handed for Masturbating in the room or anywhere else?



Why all this guilt and shame? Actually, from American History

A little bit of American history:
Our attitudes about masturbation have deep roots for sure. Around the turn-of-the-century, some adults were so against masturbation that they forced their daughters to wear gloves made of a steel-wool-like material (like Brillo pads) at night and to put a powder on their genitals that made them painful to touch. They made their sons wear metal chastity belts at night that made it painful to have an erection. During the 1820s, some parents prevented male masturbation by piecing the foreskin with a wire and soldering the ends together. Boys and girls were discouraged from masturbation by the threat of blindness, madness and illness. Of course, none of these masturbation-induced maladies proved true.

The subject of masturbation was taboo years before the United States was created. All kinds of chastity belts and other devices were used to prevent masturbation, probably as far back in history as you can go. This will vary from culture to culture.
The Truth?

Most surveys suggest that approximately 94% of teenage males "admitted" that they masturbated and about 70% of teen females "admitted" to this also. It’s always hard to establish absolute truth in any survey on sexuality and sexual behavior, since they are influenced so much by what people think is "normal". It is important to note the word "admitted" in the results of these surveys. Doesn't that word imply something shameful about the act of masturbating? We think so. This leads us to believe that we are still suffering from the residual Victorian morals when boys and girls were discouraged from masturbating.

Teaching Masturbation? Yes, Believe it or Not!

In the 1970s and 1980s, a woman named Betty Dodson, Ph.D., achieved much fame from her approach to masturbation. She actually held classes for women to teach them how to masturbate. Dodson believed women needed to overcome certain degrees of repression instilled by the church. She taught women to "celebrate their bodies. She thought masturbation should celebrated, rather than induce guilt. Dodson made the point that masturbation needed to be celebrated, and not allowed to create guilt. Dodson admitted that overcoming guilt was very difficult—for men and women, especially when the guilt was instilled by the voice of their mothers at an early age. Mothers told children not to touch themselves “down there and shame on the family whose child did so in public.

For many people the consequence of our mothers' or fathers' difficulty with our innocent sexuality when we were toddlers and infants may be the reason that the experience and enjoyment of our own bodies is taken away from us, or we are still allowed (made) to feel ashamed in some way when we feel pleasure from exploring our own bodies.

Even More Taboo...

In 1994 Dr. Jocelyn Elders—the second woman appointed to the position of U.S. Surgeon General— lost her job as Surgeon General because she dared to say that masturbation should actually be taught in schools. We think her mistake was when she said, "It's practicing for sex." She never implied that a method of masturbation be taught... or did she?


Masturbation Myths—There Are Lots More of Course.

"Masturbation isn't "real sex" and only losers masturbate."
Just not true. According to some sexuality experts people who masturbate tend to function better sexually when with a partner since they know their own body and have fulfilled sexual expression.

If you masturbate you will go blind or bald or get acne or hair on your hands -- or lots of other anomalies. None of these have any basis in truth.

People in relationships or married don't masturbate.
Wrong again. (Many couples masturbate mutually).

"Masturbation will stunt your growth"
Nice try, but wrong again.

“If you masturbate you'll never be able to have children”
I get this question as an e-mail often, this is just not true, who started this myth? If that was true none of us would be on this planet.

“Can masturbation hurt me?”
(See the Sex FAQ page for the answer)...

None of these myths are true. And while there will always be those who make religious or moral arguments against masturbation -- if you are Catholic you may have been taught that it is “sinful to spill seed” or masturbation is “seed wasted”. So, that is something you will have to decide for yourself. When done in moderation, masturbation seems to be a common, "normal", healthy way to get sexual satisfaction. It is one that is safe and does NOT run the risks of pregnancy, STDs or incompatible sexual preferences. But, use good sense while masturbating. If you are sore from spending TOO much time with yourself -- stop and let your body heal. Getting irritated skin is not uncommon, so don't panic and use plenty of water soluble lubrication next time. (Like Astroglide ® or Wet ®). If irritation persists see your health care provider. Remember, lubrication! Especially you guys (or gals using a vibrator).

If you are spending a lot of your time masturbating and it is interfering with your school work, your job, or the rest of your life, then you might want to stop and think about why you are doing it so much. A person can become obsessed with anything.


How women Masturbate?



Are there benefits to masturbation?
Yes. Masturbation can help relieve stress and:
Relieve menstrual cramps
Help for insomnia (i.e. when a person is having trouble falling asleep)
Stimulate the immune system to help build up resistance to common infections.
Release mood elevating hormones
Reduce embarrassing spontaneous erections for teen males
Reduce the number of unwanted wet dreams for young men

For more on Male or Female Orgasm, see Male Orgasm or Female Orgasm. For recommended reading on masturbation, see Female Orgasm. There are more sexuality links in there also.

For more on Sexual Health, check out the Sexual Health Library

See the Sexual FAQ Pages for more answers about masturbation.

For more on lubricants, see Lubricants - a masturbation must!

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Thursday, January 17, 2008

Finally.......My Beloved RM49.70


Finally ... my long-waiting RM 49.70 :D It's from Nuffnang. Just got my cheque for all my hardwork ( kaypo-ing and blogging ) I'm so happy. At first I wont believe that I will ever get my first cheque :D as you can see , free things aren't be easy. Where got such a " BIG DUCK HOPING AROUND THE STREET " aka where got 0 cost things in this world.

Now I found the source :P That's the secret of getting money without working :D only just blog and blog all the way till you get the cash. Nuffnang sets a target of each RM50 we will be enabled to CASH OUT. They will deduct RM1 for the transaction fees ( con my RM1 :( poor thing ) hehe..

So guys .. Blogging is good for living :D STOP WORKING NOW!

Saturday, January 12, 2008

Nice Shanghai Advertisement






I know this advertisement a bit weird to some of our fellow Malaysian .. especially those hokkien kia , the " PUKI " stands for vagina. So when this song repeated , " pukii pukii kawaii " means the vagina is cute. Please don't get me wrong as I'm not trying to talk any of vulgar language here. Just some education purposes :D

In Malaysia/Singapore , first thing will be done with this advertisement were to be ban forever due to misleading the citizen as this will create some havoc for parents when their small little pampered kids knows how to sing a " PUKII SONG " :P

But for Shanghai , they use this little piggy ( as a symbol of piggy bank ) a place where you keep your money save and sound. Instead they use " PIGGY " as the name of their ambassador , they use " PUKII ". Keep on enjoy with some several song made by Shanghai Bank. Farney and easy to remember. Nice Advertisement! Good Job~!

Thursday, January 3, 2008

Penis Experiment




This topic might be funny to everyone , but I personally felt that this is also very important to every guys on earth. Why Penis is so important?

Beside Pee-ing, there were some important issue to talk about over here :-

1. To Increase Sperm Productivity ( by choosing either boxer and brief )
2. To Satisfy your women ( Penis size important to certain women )
3. To look confident with yourself ( some might low-confident because of their size )


Topic 1 : Boxers or Briefs

That question, boxers or briefs, has been asked by every man and woman for many years. Even designers question which one men prefer. The answer is quite simple. Each man has his own preference. The difference isn’t very substantial but yet they each evoke a different feeling while wearing them.

The boxers are loose fitting and keep you cooler under pants or jeans, whereas briefs conform tightly to your body making you feel that everything is more secure when wearing them. Although designers have tried to merge them by creating boxer briefs, there is still a distinct preference that men usually have. Some wear briefs because that is what they grew up wearing and really don’t know any difference, whereas some men wear boxers because it gives their penis a little freedom to breathe. There are probably hundreds of reasons that men choose one over the other.

The one consideration taken into account when a man is trying to decide between boxers and briefs is fertility issues. Many people have questioned whether or not briefs can generate so much heat that they actually kill the sperm, making a man unable to produce enough sperm to get a woman pregnant. Still others say that briefs restrict the movement of the penis which can also affect fertility. Whether you believe it or not, many physicians stand by this rule that if you are trying to conceive you should definitely be using boxers instead of briefs, although makers of briefs decidedly disagree with this theory.

No matter which one you choose, you can also help your fertility issues with exercises of the penis. By doing these medically approved exercises you can help in stimulating the penis allow it to become more erect and able to produce more sperm. That will allow you to still wear briefs if you so choose to. Since sperm sterilization can be caused by heat in the testicle area doing these exercises will allow you to wear the underwear of your choice without worrying about the outcome.

In previous studies done, men were asked to wear both boxers and briefs to see if briefs did indeed produce more heat. Most men said that they did not, and that the theory of heat from briefs was very much exaggerated. They also agreed that there seemed to be no correlation between briefs and infertility. In conclusion, even the people hosting the study agreed that when it comes to fertility, that should not be the basis of whether or not you choose boxers or briefs. You should go simply with what you enjoy wearing the most.


Topic 2 : Woman Loves Big Penis


Once and for all, yes, penis size does matter. But don't head to the surgeon's office just yet there, Jacko; it matters, but not in the way that you think.

After asking 200 women of all ages (over 18), sizes, ethnicities, and sexual habits, the conclusion was that 82% of these women were content with a penis that was big enough to satisfy them, which averaged at about 6 inches. That, by the way, is just about the average penis size for men, according to the Lifestyle Condom Penis Size survey, which measured the erect penis size of 300 men.

And what did women have to say about girth? Well, I'll get into the thick of that issue later...

Go the extra inch

Of course, there was a small percentage (9%) who wanted a penis that was larger than average (7 to 8 inches). There was also a minute amount of women (2%) who preferred mammoth-sized penises (10 to 12 inches). And lastly, 7% preferred a penis that was smaller than average (about 5 inches). But once and for all, let us discover what the deal is when it comes to what women think about the size of a man's penis.

Most women surveyed agreed that a man could have the most confidence in the world; he could be a complete success personally, financially and in all the other areas that are of importance to him. But if he thinks that his penis size is under average, or even average for that matter, suddenly everything else in his life pales in comparison to his underachieving pecker.

The unfortunate blunder men make when it comes to penis size is believing that bigger is always better; that is not always the case. In fact, many women who dated men with abnormally larger penises complained that they weren't able to comfortably enjoy certain sexual positions, nor were they able to adequately give oral sex. The last thing a woman wants is to have her man's penis knocking against her cervix during sex or creating stretch marks around the corners of her mouth.


56% expect a penis to more or less match the complexion of the rest of a man's body.
23% expect a penis to feel very smooth.
21% weren't very happy about an abundance of veins.

Surprisingly, most women surveyed had mixed opinions about circumcised men. Some thought that uncut men were more prone to giving them infections (which is not true so long as uncircumcised men maintain good hygiene habits) and simply didn't like the look of it, while other women simply preferred a natural penis. Most women, however, were indifferent about the cutting issue.

Racial stereotypes

So do black men have larger penises than average? Do Asians have smaller penises than average? Well, yes, but not by much.

Black men are indeed bigger than Caucasian men, but only by half an inch or so, on average. And Asian men are about half an inch smaller on average. But the interesting thing about all of this is that the women in each race have vaginas that are perfectly designed to fit. That's right; according to the-penis-website.com, Asian women tend to have smaller vaginas and black women larger ones, relative to Caucasians.

Most recent survey

Of course, different surveys claim that different sizes are normal. Why? Well first, because they're surveys. Second, because no survey has the time or the finances to measure every erect penis on Earth. Thus, the most recent survey, conducted by the Lifestyles Condom Company in 2001, measured the erect length and girth of 300 college age men in Cancun amid Spring Break.

Here's what they concluded:

The average length of an erect penis is about 5.9 inches.
The average girth of an erect penis is about 5 inches.


Alfred Kinsey, of the famed Kinsey Institute, conducted the first report on average penis size in the 1940s, which claimed that the average erect penis was 6.2 to 6.4 inches in length. The flaw with this survey was that the study focused only on Caucasian men and let the men measure themselves (and my guess is that some were supersizing ). And although the difference is only about a mere half an inch in difference, it means a whole lot to many men out there.

What's more important?

But wait, the women had more to say (we always do). When asked whether length or girth was more important, most women opted for girth, as they claimed to enjoy the feeling of a thick penis against their vaginal walls rather than having an unusually long penis poking against their insides.

Most women, according to the 200 surveyed, preferred a "proportional penis." As one woman said, "I don't want a pencil penis poking and prodding me, nor do I want a stubby little cigar trying its damnedest to rip me apart. The length has to be proportional to the width." And what would that be? I guess that would be the average.

So what's the point?

Of course, when asked, most men would opt to have a bigger penis. The reasoning is perhaps more about ego than satisfying a partner, not to mention being able to walk naked with absolute pride in the men's locker room. But I digress.

Rejoice; chances are that your woman is quite happy with the size of your manhood. Thus, it's about time that you were content with your little buddy as well. We really do love you just the way you are. Keep it clean and healthy, and we'll take care of the rest.

While most of us would jump at the chance to have a bigger penis, the truth is that most of us are average in size. What is average? Well, according to The Penis Website, it's about six inches in length, erect.

If you're below that size, don't feel bad because there are sex positions that'll ensure you get in as deep as possible and satisfy the woman you're with.

Topic 3 : Look confident with yourself

Before you get inside...

Of course, penetration isn't all you have to do. There are other ways to ensure your woman's satisfaction, and they don't necessarily involve your penis.

Focus on foreplay
Whether it's kissing her or performing cunnilingus, giving her attention before full-on sex begins is always a good idea. And considering most women take longer to reach orgasm during penetration than guys do, it's actually a fantastic idea to focus on foreplay.

Stimulate the clitoris
Whether you're penetrating her or not, the clitoris is your friend. Learn how to manipulate it to help her reach orgasm and then penetration will simply be an afterthought.

The positions

Now, here are four positions that'll deepen your penetration and ensure full stimulation.

1- The doggie
I think we can all agree that this is the mother of all positions. Not only do you get full penetration, you also get the scenic route. For an even tighter feeling, open your legs and have her close hers, and get her to arch her back and relax her head and shoulders on a pillow.

2- The snake
Have your girl lie face-down on her stomach, legs straight out and closed. Place your genitals just under her butt and spread your legs on either side of her body, knees bent (keep your torso upright). Be careful not to let your weight drop on her, and make your way inside. If you like, prop her butt up by putting a pillow under her hips.
Note: She may initially have to open her legs in order for you to get your penis inside.

3- The rabbit ears
As your woman lies on her back, bring her knees to her ears, have her hold her legs there, and penetrate. The fact that her vagina is in plain view and easily penetrable allows for great in-and-out movement. I recommend that you put your hands (or a pillow) under her butt and hold her up as you watch yourself going in and out.

4- The V-formation
As she lies on her back, make your way inside her. Then, lift her legs in the air, hold her ankles, and spread her legs apart, forming a V. After a while, rest her legs on your shoulders and manipulate her clitoris while you continue penetrating her. Or, you could hold on to her hips and slowly pump in and out.

More positions for you

Although many women find big penises visually stimulating, most admit that they wouldn't like to have one inside them. So don't feel insecure if your penis is below average; there are so many ways you can make up for it as a lover.

So until next time, drive her crazy before you penetrate her, and when you do penetrate her, make sure you go all the way.

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